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You’ve spent years being the capable one.
The one who anticipates, manages, tends, softens, and holds.
From the outside, your life may look beautiful.
But inside, you feel tired in a way that sleep doesn’t fix.
This is not just stress.
And it’s not because you need to “try harder” to take care of yourself.
It’s a deeper pattern — one where being needed became identity, and self-abandonment became normal.
Aligned by Design is a private 60-minute session designed to reveal the hidden pattern beneath the overgiving… so you can stop living like a utility and start living like a woman who is fully present in her own life.
If this is your season…
If this is your season…
You are high-functioning, self-aware, and quietly exhausted.
You know how to hold a lot.
You know how to keep everything moving.
And you also know something is off.
Maybe you’ve outgrown the version of you who is always “fine.”
Maybe your body feels heavy, resentful, numb, or braced.
Maybe you want more space, more softness, more truth — but every time you reach for it, guilt rushes in.
You may not need a total life overhaul.
You may need a new way of seeing the pattern you’ve been living inside.
What is the Martyr Frequency?
What is the Martyr Frequency?
It’s the invisible rhythm of over-responsibility.
It’s what happens when usefulness becomes the way you earn love.
When being needed feels safer than being honest.
When your body learns to stay hyper-attuned to everyone else… while drifting further from yourself.
So even when you crave rest, desire, ease, or support, you default to:
overfunctioning
people-pleasing
emotional caretaking
managing everyone’s experience
abandoning your own needs before they can even fully form
This is not a flaw in your personality.
It’s a pattern your system learned.
And once you can see it clearly, you can stop organizing your entire life around it.
What happens inside Aligned by Design
What happens inside Aligned by Design
This private 60-minute session is a space for deep reflection, precise insight, and meaningful shift.
Using your unique design as a mirror, we uncover:
where you’ve been operating from obligation instead of alignment
the identity patterns keeping you overextended
the hidden cost of always being the “strong one”
what your system is actually asking for now
the first clear steps toward a more honest, spacious way of living
This is not about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering who you are beneath the performance.
What you’ll leave with
What you’ll leave with
After this session, you’ll walk away with:
clarity on the deeper pattern driving your exhaustion
language for what you’ve felt but haven’t been able to name
insight into how you are actually designed to move through life
relief from trying to fix the problem at the surface
a grounded next step toward more truth, space, and self-trust
The shift is subtle and profound:
Less performance.
More presence.
Less resentment.
More honesty.
Less carrying.
More being.
This is for you if…
This is for you if…
you are the one everyone relies on, and you’re tired of being the emotional infrastructure
you’ve done a lot of inner work, but still feel stuck in overgiving
you crave relief, but not in a way that requires burning your whole life down
you want to feel more connected to your body, your needs, your voice, and your desire
you’re ready to stop disappearing inside the life you built
This may not be for you if…
This may not be for you if…
you’re looking for a quick fix with no self-honesty required
you want someone to tell you who to be instead of helping you see yourself more clearly
you are unwilling to look at the roles you’ve been rewarded for performing
The experience
The experience
60-minute private session
A focused, high-touch space to uncover the hidden pattern beneath your current exhaustion and reconnect you to your own internal signal.
Includes:
a personalized audit through your unique design lens
real-time reflection and pattern recognition
intuitive, strategic coaching around your current season
a clear takeaway on what shifts next
Investment: $247
Format: 1:1 Teams Video
Client Love
Client Love
"I felt more understood in 60 minutes than I have in years. She named patterns I’ve lived inside for decades without ever having language for them.”
— Michelle M.
“This wasn’t just insightful — it was relieving. I left feeling lighter, clearer, and more able to trust myself.”
— Sherry B
“I came in thinking I needed better boundaries. I left realizing I needed a completely different relationship with my own needs.”
— Diana L.
Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
What exactly is this session?
What exactly is this session?
This is a private 60-minute deep-dive designed to help you identify the deeper pattern beneath your overgiving, exhaustion, and self-abandonment. It combines reflection, insight, and personalized guidance so you can see what’s really going on — and what shifts next.
Do I need to know anything about my design beforehand?
Do I need to know anything about my design beforehand?
No. You do not need to come in with any prior knowledge. This space is designed to meet you exactly where you are. We'll just need your birthplace and birth time, to pull your unique Blueprint.
Is this therapy?
Is this therapy?
No. This is a private coaching and insight-based session. It is a guided space for clarity, pattern recognition, and forward movement.
What if I don’t want to blow up my marriage, family, or life?
What if I don’t want to blow up my marriage, family, or life?
You do not need to burn your life down to tell the truth inside it. This work is about creating more presence, honesty, and alignment within the life you already have — not creating unnecessary chaos.
Who is this best for?
Who is this best for?
This session is best for women who are self-aware, emotionally intelligent, and tired of carrying so much. Especially if you are the one who “looks fine” on the outside but feels depleted on the inside.
Will one session really help?
Will one session really help?
One precise, honest session can create a massive shift — especially when it gives you language and awareness for the actual pattern at play. You may not leave with your whole life solved, but you will leave seeing yourself more clearly.
Your next chapter doesn’t need to begin with collapse.
Your next chapter doesn’t need to begin with collapse.
It can begin with truth.
With clarity.
With one honest look at the role you’ve been playing… and the woman underneath it.
The Aligned by Design Audit is your invitation back to yourself.
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